So you’ve booked your boudoir shoot and your session day is quickly approaching. Like so many of my clients, you have a running list of all of the things you want to get done before shoot day. Like, “lose that extra weight”, “clear up those blemishes”, “heal those stretch marks”.

The list could go on and on…

Babe, I’m here to tell you that you can ditch that never-ending to-do list. '“Why is that?”, you might be asking. Because, the purpose of your boudoir shoot is to unleash your natural beauty, not change anything about yourself.

Here’s how to do so during the days leading up to your boudoir photoshoot…

Follow the session prep materials to a t:

Leading up to your shoot, we’ll be sending you carefully designed session prep materials to help prepare for the big day in a way that is empowering and supportive.

After years of guiding everyday women through this experience, you can expect that every little detail has been thought of for you so all you have to do is follow the steps we’ve laid out.

Showing yourself this love and attention will give you a sense of confidence that will set you up to thrive in front of the camera. As you’ll notice in the prep materials, we don’t encourage making any drastic changes to yourself before your shoot.

We do, however, recommend staying on top of your preferred style of grooming, pampering yourself with a mani-pedi (this could be done at home if you prefer!), and scheduling a visit at your regular hair salon.

Trust your session prep materials and if you have any questions about how to prepare for your shoot, shoot me an email at misty@mistyboles.com.

Trust your gut when it comes to wardrobe:

Our gut reactions show us what our most authentic desires are. If you are scrolling through Pinterest and you see a stunning piece of body jewelry that catches your eye, give it a shot!

That outfit may show a little more skin than you’re used to, have a little more bling than you’re used to, or feel way out of your comfort zone. But, that outfit will help you reach new levels of confidence and celebrate your desires.

So often we let those desires get buried by that voice in our head. Do you know the voice?

The one that loves sharing all of the reasons why something wouldn’t work out. When we listen to that voice we miss out on opportunities to express our authentic selves and live our lives to the fullest.

There is nothing more beautiful than seeing a woman feeling confident in her own skin. Trust your gut when it comes to wardrobe to unleash your most radiant and natural self.

Practice these affirmations:

I love using affirmations to redirect my thoughts when I am stuck comparing myself to others or am speaking unkindly to my body.

Here are some of my favorites:

• I am worthy of love, flaws and all.

• I accept all of me with love.

• I believe in myself.

• I am enough.

Want to learn more?

We’d love to chat! The first step to learning more about what your boudoir experience will look like is to schedule a free 10-15 minute phone consultation with the studio. During our call, we’ll chat through all of the details and book your session date if you are ready!

Xoxo,

Misty